I once advised her to go to housing, which she did. I offered to come with her, but she said she'd sort it out.She did put in a complaint and they sorted out the initial problem.They often just behave like the school yard bully, the spoilt brat or the class clown (or all these things) that they were when they were growing up.If you are going to gain the high ground you will need to be the growenup (we consider the high ground is a relatively peaceful existence free of annoyance, intimidation and aggravation) you who will need to be patient, determined, thorough and mature, it is you who will need to be the grownup.Sometimes her neighbours would turn the music up really loud for a couple seconds just to scare her. She said it was ok and she was resolving the issue." Miss Lindfield's mother Kerry Bentley, a 52-year-old teacher, said: "She was always very good at hiding her moods from us.
If you have come here looking for methods of revenge you have come to the wrong place, that is not what we are about and it is probably you who is (or is about to become) the NFH.
The web site has lots of info but a good place to start is how to Manage the situation.
We have not arrived at making this web site without having gained considerable experience with the NFH; 'the whole nine yards' as they say, fence disputes, planning complaints to council, threats and assaults and the subsequent court cases and AVO's, and seemingly endless and ongoing childish provocations, so in the content of this web site we will try to cover the various legal methods you have at your disposal to quiet the beast next door and in the process we will explore some of issues that make the NFH what he or she is.
The last thing you want to do is provide fuel for the NFH and their madness but neither do you want to be driven out of your own home so getting them to shift focus away from you and still getting what you want is the key to managing the situation well.
It may take time and patience (lots of patience) but the possibilities exist that you can have a NFH and still manage to live a happy and healthy existence.